In this article I want to talk about the power of our own cognitive traps and toxic people around us taking us on wrong learning experiences, the ones we do not choose or wish ourselves. On top of that I will encourage sound ways of making your own interest into a great source of your learning.
What is a Wrong Learning Loop - The One That is Out of Your Control
Most of us strongly believe that we manage our own life and situations. And yes we do, sometimes in purposeful and sound way, and sometimes we shape cognitive traps as reactions to the outside world and if they functioned one time we have a tendency to utilize them again.
As we are social beings we look up at people around us, without considering their agendas, lifestyles, past experiences and ambitions for furture. While socializing we can meet toxic people with purposefully wrong agendas, and the worst that can happen to us is to actually learn their way.
Examples of Wrong Learning Intentionality and Their Affect on Learning Results
You Learn Out of Your Guilt Feelings and Obsessive Self-Critisism
You Learn Out of Your Pain
Learning out of pain is part of our life, a lot of people made it into a blessing concept which is ok to celebrate your own self, but less giving in terms of the knowledge gained, conclusions made and experience aquired. It is much better to look at emotionally painful experiences as pain and to pause and ask why they happen. For that you can turn to mediation and psychology I will refer to later in the article.
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