In this article I want to discuss, how you can become your life's own creator to a higher extent, how you can twist and work with content of your own life. When it comes down to us, everything starts with us.
How Do We Create Content in Our Lives?
Humanity, society, city, family, mass media and digital spacies
As we are social, it all starts with humanity, country, city and family we live in. Mass media and all inspiration from the digital spaces top it up.
In his multi million bestseller "Sapiens" Yuval Noah Harari describes how we as species managed to create languages, structures and societies. And the main reason is our ability to create stories, put things into special social context. [1]
You, Your Thoughts, Your Beliefs, Your Initiatives
The most important ingridient in your own life is you. If you embrace and understand that, you can create a better content in your own life and stand more on your own feet in ever changing stories around us.
Whats makes you you? It is your own decision. You have multiple ingridients to choose from. Let yourself get inspired by them and choose the ones you like most.
The way you make your own decisions, is you. How you act around them, is you. The way you come around multiple ingridients in the society is also you. In my further discussion I will stop with this particular part of your story creation.
Understand How Your Personality Uses Life Elements to Create Stories
It all starts in our heads and storytelling in our thoughts, when it comes down to us, and the way we center elements around us. Do they worl and crash? Are they devastating? Do they overload? Do they contradict? Do they awake our insecurities?
Or. Are we able to receive and interact with elements in giving, learning, engaging, innovating and thought-provoking etc. way?
See, that is a storytelling pattern of your own you would want to revive, reassemble and establish. As no matter the circumstances any other story telling pattern in your head will not be giving, unless you want to write a million copy thriller, drama or horror book.
What is Affected Highly by Your Thinking Patterns?
- The judgements and connections you make
- The decision you take
- The information you search
- The people you invite in your own life and on what terms
- Your speech, its proficiency and impact
- Your problem-solving
- The meaning you create in lives of other people
- Your ability to produce new knowledge and forms of life
What Is The Recepy for Recreating Our Stories Within?
- Start by readressing your attitude towards yourself. It is always easier and less intimidating.
- Find inside support from your life stories. Your life could not be horrible all the way through. Proceed to dealing with your own imperfections.
- Shaffle around your life time experiences and notice your own imperfections. Write them down and decide how you want to effectivise them, and what help you need to do that.
- Find solution and help - great sources of help can be meditative techniques and positive psychology, finding inspirational material on the topic and finding great examples of the human traits you want to restructure, Engaging in the relevant activities or organising some of your own.
- Try out addressing your reality in new ways
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